From divorce court to popular culture, alimony
is a dirty word. Unpopular and rarely ordered, the awards are frequently
inconsistent and unpredictable. The institution itself is often viewed as an
historical relic that harkens back to a gendered past in which women lacked the
economic independence to free themselves from economic support by their spouses.
In short, critics of alimony claim it has no place in contemporary visions of
marriage as a partnership of equals. But as Cynthia Lee Starnes argues in The
Marriage Buyout, alimony is often the only practical tool for ensuring that divorce does not treat
today’s primary caregivers as if they were suckers. Her solution is to
radically reconceptualize alimony as a marriage buyout.
Starnes’s buyouts draw on a partnership model of marriage that reinforces
communal norms of marriage, providing a gender-neutral alternative to alimony
that assumes equality in spousal contribution, responsibility, and right. Her
quantification formulae support new default rules that make buyouts more
certain and predictable than their current alimony counterparts. Looking beyond
alimony, Starnes outlines a new vision of marriages with children, describing a
co-parenting partnership between committed couples, and the conceptual basis
for income sharing between divorced parents of minor children. Ultimately,
under a partnership model, the focus of alimony is on gain rather than loss and
equality rather than power: a spouse with disparately low earnings isn’t a
sucker or a victim dependent on a fixed alimony payment, but rather an equal
stakeholder in marriage who is entitled at divorce to share any gains the
marriage produced.

"Starnesprovides a historic overview of alimony, detailing its evolution, justification, and criticism overtime. The first part of the book reviews the history of alimony, grounded in old legal theories that the interests of women merged with their husbands and therefore the latter had a perpetual duty to support them. This section also discusses the decline of alimony with changes in marriage law in the 1970s and the many myths that surround spousal support. Parts 2 and 3 discuss how current alimony law operates and the crisis in theories justifying it. The last part of the book offers a new theory of alimony as a buyout for stay-at-home moms who have been partners in a marriage and who have forgone income in return for raising children. This delightfully written and informative book on an overlooked subject is suited for collections on family law, feminism, and gender politics.Summing Up: Highly Recommended." - Choice