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Why realism, not egoism, is the force that moves you forward.

Topic

Self-development, philosophy.

About the book

We are used to blaming others for our own problems and failures. But often the most fierce enemy of success lives inside us - our ego. It is arrogance, an unhealthy belief in our own importance, and self-absorption that prevent us from moving forward, learning new skills, being creative, or establishing open relationships with people. However, the ego can be conquered. History knows many obsessive visionary geniuses who reshaped the world according to their vision. However, it is also created by people who put an important goal above their own recognition.

Who is the book for

The book is for everyone who seeks self-development, wants to understand themselves and find the best version of their own self.

Why this book

The author will convince you that restraint and modesty give you confidence and open up opportunities to change the world, and will teach you how to direct your ego in the right direction, showing examples of such unwavering realists as Eleanor Roosevelt, Benjamin Franklin or Angela Merkel.

About the Author

Ryan Holliday is a media strategist and writer. He worked as a marketing director at American Apparel. Founder of the creative company Brass Check, which has advised Google, TASER, Complex and other successful corporations. Author of bestselling books on marketing and self-development, including the books &Ahead. The Art of Turning Obstacles into Victories, Marketing the Future, and Keep Calm (Our Format).

Books on similar topics

• «Keep Calm. A Daily Guide to Problem Solving», Ryan Holiday, Steven Gensilman «Our Format», 2018.
• «Black Swan. About the (un)probable in real life», Nassim Nicholas Taleb, «Nash Format», 2017

Reviews

«Philosophy has been unfairly discredited. But Ryan Holiday returns it to its place of honour. This book, full of unforgettable stories, strategies, and lessons, is perfect for anyone who wants to take action."

Jimmy Sonai, former managing editor of The Huffington Post

Quotes

On Realism
If you eliminate the ego, you will have reality. The ego will be replaced by modesty, yes, but this modesty is as solid as a stone, it gives confidence. This type of self-confidence is weighty, whereas the ego is false. It is stolen. And this confidence is honestly earned. The ego is an impostor, its boasting is a fraudulent trick. Modesty supports you, the ego resorts to gaslighting, psychological manipulation. It's the difference between support and poison."

About the «ego»
The ability to correctly assess your own abilities is the most important human skill. Without it, no improvement is possible. And the ego, of course, puts a spoke in the wheel at every turn. Of course, it is much more pleasant to focus on your talents and strengths. But where does this lead us? Arrogance and self-absorption inhibit growth. So do fantasies and visions.