Men and women seek different elements of intimacy. This book argues that a failure to understand the opposite gender's intimacy needs can contribute to relationship distress. Jane Ridley explores potentially critical periods and turning points in a couple's relationship, including sexuality, pregnancy, ageing, the impact of earlier separation and dealing with children from previous relationships.

Contents:

• Part One: A Working Hypothesis
• The Invisible Intimacy Screen
• Critical Periods in the Life Cycle of Relationships and Intimacy
• Life Events and Intimacy
• Part Two: A Realistic Approach to Gender
• Critical Periods and Female Vulnerablity
• Critical Periods and Male Vulnerablity